Alhamdulillah, I learn more today, as I joined parental briefing at Madrasah Al Irsyad.telinga ini berasa dijewer kanan kiri selama acara :)
Here are some points I noted down:
- learn to love parenting..then everything will be seen to be just right
- start seeing child as a gift...indeed, there are a gift, thanks God!
- enjoy seeing child grow every second...
- put in your mind:
~ my child continues my mission
~ my child is a potential khalifah fil ard
~ Life is a Test...All Test is a gift...with this in mind, every problem is enjoyable
- set family purpose, as children must be able to see where the family is heading:
~ love to obey Allah and Rasullullah
~ love to serve neighbours
~ be thankful to Allah at all time
~ show to child that Quran guides us
~ reflect these at every end of day
- express understanding for child's feelings
- show empathy without condoning
- your child is in process of becoming you:
~ what parts of me ready for role modelling?
~ what parts of me need to improve?
this is part that I love it the most:
You and your child are each other's life coach...thanks to you, kids...for teaching me to be patient and grateful on every moment of this life!
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